By Kenneth Altobello 
Maybe you’re sending the wrong signals.
Why do you always end up falling for guys who hurt you? Your love language might actually be part of the problem.
* Quality Time *
Just because you spend time with someone doesn’t mean he’s on the same page as you. Remember—it’s about quality, not quantity. If he’s glued to his phone or playing video games while you’re opening up about your whole life, that guy is probably not really there… even if his body is in front of you.
* He helps you… but does he want to? *
There’s a big difference between falling for a guy who helps because he truly cares—who’s there for you on a bad day, who shows up when you need him—and a guy who helps only when he gets something out of it. One gives from the heart, the other keeps score.
* Affection can trick you *
Hugs and yes, even kisses, can make you believe he feels the same way you do. While you’re building an emotional connection in your head, for him it might be just another moment. Maybe he does like you, just not at the same level… and in those cases, a broken heart is basically on its way.
Take care of your heart.